21st Sunday
in Ordinary Time
In today’s first reading
Joshua, the successor of Moses, presents the people of Israel with a choice.
If it does not please you to serve the Lord,Decide today whom you will serve,The gods your fathers served beyond the RiverOr the gods of the Amorites in whose country you are now dwelling.
Today, Joshua might have included
the gods of the Americans that we are all being asked to serve. We may not
think of them as gods in the old-fashioned sense but we are being tempted every
day to turn away from the Lord and our values in the service of things that are
strange and alien. Just like the people in Joshua’s time, we have to make a
very important choice.
In today’s gospel reading
Jesus also presents his followers with a choice. This year most of the gospel
readings are from the Gospel of Mark. But since that gospel is so short, the
Church supplements it with the long passage from the Gospel of John that is
often called the “bread of life” discourse. It seems like all summer Jesus has
been talking about the living bread that will give eternal life, and not just
food for a day.
In last week’s gospel Jesus
had said,
Amen, amen, I say to you,Unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink his bloodYou do not have life within you….Unlike your ancestors who ate and still died,Whoever eats this bread will live forever.
These words, coming right
before the start of today’s gospel passage, were the ones the disciples found
so shocking. This was the saying they murmured about. They said, “this saying
is hard, who can accept it?” The disciples have not been the only ones to find
this saying hard to believe. Not only is it hard to believe that Jesus would give
his body and blood for us on the Cross, but also it is hard to believe that
right before his Passion, he would give us his body and blood in the Eucharist.
So today while so many people
are coming to the Eucharist all over the world and sometimes even being
persecuted for their belief, many are turning away because it is hard, and all
that goes with it, is hard to accept. One of the things that many find hard to
accept is the passage from St. Paul’s letter to the Ephesians that we heard
today about husbands and wives. How are we to understand this reading
especially that controversial passage where St. Paul says, "Wives, be
subordinate to your husbands, as is proper in the Lord."
We could say that Paul, like
so many of his contemporaries, was a "sexist" who thought that women
were second-class citizens. You could also say that since Paul never married,
he knew nothing about the actual relationship of a man and a woman in marriage
or the way they would arrange responsibility in a household even then.
However, you could also say
that Paul was dealing in this section with a very practical problem that had
arisen in the early Christian churches, especially among the Gentiles. It would
appear that the new faith was especially attractive to women. Scholars tell us
that in pagan families it was often the woman who first converted to
Christianity, and then subsequently brought their husbands and families into
the fold. This is not unusual even in our time.
However, there were cases
where the husband would not convert, and women in this situation wondered what
to do. Should they stay with their pagan husbands or should they leave? Paul
always urges them to remain faithful to their marriage vows. He knew that there
was no social safety net for these women outside of marriage but he also argued
that they would be better able to bring their husbands and families to believe
by remaining married.
Finally, I think you could
say that St. Paul is preaching a revolutionary new doctrine here. Let's
concentrate on his advice to the men. "Husbands, love your wives." It
is hard for us to realize that in the ancient world, love of a husband for his
wife was not the ideal. Our idea of a young couple falling in love and
dedicating their whole lives to one another was an alien idea in the ancient
world. At that time and for centuries after marriages were arranged between
families. A young woman or girl might only meet her future husband, often an
older man, for the first time at their engagement. A woman was little more than
a childbearing machine. If she could not bear children, her husband was
obligated to divorce her. As far as romantic feeling or sexual pleasure was
concerned, a man usually found that outside of the bonds of matrimony.
Despite today's popular
opinion, Christianity elevated the role of women not only in society but also
in the eyes of her husband. St. Paul understands the teaching of Christ to mean
that Christian men must give up their whole lives for their wives and families,
a rare thing in any time. Today, one would have to be blind not to see that so
many men have given up on even the thought of marriage and the self-sacrificing
love it demands.
Despite our material wealth
and possessions we all, young and old, male and female, will still have to face
a choice similar to that faced by the Israelites in the desert at the time of
Moses, or the disciples in the time of Jesus. Who or what will we serve. Who or
what will we pledge our allegiance to?
Joshua said, “As for me and
my household, we will serve the Lord.” When many of the disciples left Jesus
and turned their backs on the bread of life, He asked the Twelve, “Do you also
want to leave?”
St. Peter’s response is a
guide for all of us:
Master, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life.
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Reading 1. Joshua 24: 1-2a, 15-17, 18b
Reading II. Ephesians 5: 21-32
Gospel. John 6: 60-69 (to whom shall we go?)



